I casually used the term “stupid” in my last blog – inspired by Seth Godin’s message. A thoughtful reader and person who has been very supportive of my work shared his opinion on my using this term to convey my message. He made an excellent point:
“There is a world of difference between “stupid” and “uninformed”. The difference lies, amongst other things, in the emotions that arise with each word.” He goes on to say, “I feel that it is unhelpful to introduce more negative words into our world of finding effective help, support and relief. I feel that the word “stupid” might be harmful. I certainly am reacting negatively to this post. Not negatively to you, of course, or your work. But if I am reacting like this, others will, too, including perhaps others who have not yet had the good fortune to learn what I have. They might be pushed away.”
My husband agreed – a reminder to run these things by him first!!
My enthusiasm for Godin overrode my sensitivity. Using the term “stupid” as I did was meant to be more tongue-in-cheek – giving us all permission and space to recognize that it’s perfectly okay to be uninformed, in fact, it’s an opportunity!
I always appreciate thoughtful feedback!
Best,
Dori